From our friends and family

I'm Allen Correia, Brenda Zlogar’s younger brother and Jay Zlogar’s brother-in-law. I aim to be an engaged uncle, offering both mentorship and fun to my future niece or nephew. Brenda and Jay's caring nature and strong relationship assure me they'll excel as parents. Brenda's support during a challenging period in my life was invaluable, showcasing her reliability and trustworthiness. Jay's kindness, like fixing a trellis for my mom, reflects his readiness to help and go the extra mile. Their commitment to their cat Cher and her kittens showcase their nurturing qualities. They even adopted one of the kittens themselves, demonstrating their dedication to family. Their love for their fur babies reflects their potential as loving parents. I have full confidence in their ability to create a nurturing and supportive environment for their future child.

I am Katie, I have known Brenda for 25 years and we are best friends.  I have known Jay for 9 years.

Brenda is well grounded, kind and caring.  She would give you the shirt off her back and Jay is similar and matches Brenda.  He is always kind, respectful and thoughtful.

My fondest memories of these two are staying at the cabins in New Hampshire together with my husband and two children.  Also, both Brenda and Jay attending birthday parties for both my children.  At those parties they've gone in the bouncy houses with both my kids.

I know they will be great parents after seeing how they treat my kids.  I have a son, Landon, with autism and they have watched him several times and not once have I ever worried about how they would react to his behaviors. They have never treated him differently and continue to treat him like their own.  

I would play an important role in this child’s life as his or her god parent.  I would be a role model, a shoulder to cry on, a trusted adult figure who will guide them to grow and thrive to be a remarkable human being.

My name is Joseph Zlogar and my wife, Nadene, and I were married for 48 years before she passed away in June of 2022. Jason is my eldest son and Brenda is my daughter-in-law. I will be known to the child as “Papa” and will bestow my 70+ years of knowledge and skills upon him or her. Jason and Brenda are both devoted to their families, very loving and caring. Jason was very active in Boy Scouts where he attained the rank of Eagle Scout and developed excellent leadership talents. He is a great teacher, patient and has a very deep skill set. Family get togethers are always entertaining especially with the nephews and games. Jason and Brenda are great with their nephews; playing video games, building Legos and offering challenges like seeing who can make the highest tower, build the longest or biggest or fastest vehicles. I love the way Brenda and Jason not only share their love but the household chores too. Cooking and gardening together is one of their favorite past times.  

I am Alissa, I have known Jay for about 24 years and Brenda for about 10 years. They are my brother and sister-in-law. 

They have many strengths but most important would be unity, dedication to each other, and what they want. They are driven and both are very supportive of one another. They are very loving, supportive, consistent and involved. They would express their love and affection consistently and communicate effectively as a team. They would set limits, teach responsibility, be great role models, provide new experiences and manage stress well. 

We have shared many fond memories because we have known each other for many years. From snowboarding in Vermont when Jay lived there to lots of family occasions and many trips to new England Dragway. The list could go on and on. Between relaxing by the pool or visiting at the campground, there have been so many wonderful memories. 

I would play the role of an aunt, as well as be a friend, mentor, sounding board. I would share activities and those would vary widely and evolve as the child grew up. I hope to be playful, supportive, loving and nurturing.